Nanny 911: Stop Toddler Whining
You have to exercise a little discipline here for yourself, too, by not giving in to the whining. As you said, even when you give them what they want, it doesn't make them stop. It is also about separating their "wants" from their needs. As you have probably heard us say before, "'I want' doesn't get."
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