Teaching Kids to Share

If your kid screams "MINE!!!" and grabs his favorite truck out of his buddy's hands every time he comes over for a playdate, don't stress. It's totally normal for toddlers and young kids not to know how (or want) to share. Sharing is a learned skill that takes time to develop. Kids under the age of 2 simply can't do it. Kids over age 2 might not want to share, but they are beginning to understand the concept. At this age, there are some things you can do to get your kid well on his way to being a kind, sharing little dude.

• Model sharing yourself! Kids learn by watching what YOU do! So next time you're eating an ice cream cone, offer your kid a bite and let him know you enjoy sharing with him!
• Have your kid take turns! Let your kid know that he can play with the toy for a few minutes and then it'll be his friend's turn. Set a timer for a minute or two and when it dings, help your child hand over the toy.
• Tuck away prized toys! Don't force your kid to share prized possessions, like his lovey or his new birthday gift. If he has a friend coming over, give him a shot to put any toys he doesn't want to share away. Then explain to him that the toys that are left are fair game.

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