Birthday gifts.

Thank you all for the suggestions. We ended up getting her a littlest pet shop playset, (a small one) and an easy bake oven. The oven was sort of a panic purchase because we thought we had to get something and were not really sure what else to do. She had asked for one but not seriously.  We looked at doll houses and some other playsets but nothing seemed right. I really regret getting the oven. She was happy with the LPS set and would have still have been happy with just that. She does like it but she helps me bake already so I am not sure if she will enjoy it after the novelty wears off.

Going out for a day is a great idea. We will probably do that now that the family is all gone. She ended up sick the day after the party and still is. Hopefully she will be better by this weekend and we can go to a farm or something. Her party was at a pumpkin farm and someone took the pumpkin she picked off of her table. It was too late to do another hayride to pick another one so she really wants to go back .

Rosie just gets one small gift on her birthday. Usually just a new doll or a book. We take her out on a trip on her birthday, sometimes to ride horses or paint pottery, something small.

My kids are fine with smaller gifts.  Maybe you could give her a smaller gift and a gift certificate for a day with you... take her out to lunch and then to a toy store and have her pick something out. 

I think small gifts are nice too. If you are looking for a big one though, maybe a doll house? I loved mine when I was a kid (even though I wasn't much for dolls generally) and Fisher Price has plastic ones that are much less expensive than wooden ones. I have no idea what an LPS or Zooble is so I don't know if this is something your daughter would like, but my 3 year old adores hers.

if she likes LPS and zoobles get her one of those big LPS/ Zooble playsets. those are always a big hit aorund here adn there are many different kinds.