Nanny 911: Disciplining Without Yelling
I have to ask my son to do something three or four times before he will actually do it on most days. I finally get so frustrated that he isn't doing what I ask that I yell at him to do it. Then he does whatever it is that I asked. I know I am encouraging him to yell and carry on, but how do I get him to listen the first time that I ask and avoid the yelling?
If he doesn't listen the first time, then give him a warning and tell him if he doesn't respond, he will lose a privilege! Make sure his hearing is OK, too. I used to always tell the children I was looking after that I was going to get their ears checked to make sure they heard me!
Also remember cleaning up and the like should be made fun. Have a little competition to see who can pick up the most toys. If he doesn't want to play along, tell him that if you pick them all up, they belong to you!
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