Relationships During Pregnancy
Submitted by aljnmomtobe
I'm eight months pregnant... and my husband has always been here for me. He goes to all the appointments, he cooks dinner, he helps with everything. Granted I've never thought he is perfect, but he seems to do all the right things. When we found out I was pregnant I was throwing up 12x a day and he took care of me.
Unfortunately I have stayed sick through the entire thing. Sex doesn't feel good to me for the most part it is uncomfortable and no fun. But I have tried to do it anyways because he is my husband. Two days ago I found his porn. It was all girls with other girls. I was crushed.
I'm sure a lot of guys do it ... just didn't expect it from my husband. I asked him about it and he deleted it all and also confessed he has been watching it. Said he didn't know what else to do since I've had such a hard time being pregnant. He promised not to watch it anymore and wrote me a card and bought roses saying how sorry he is for hurting me.
I know he means it, but every time we get close, I wonder if he sees me and how fat I am or those girls. ... Has anyone else ever dealt with this?