Spice Up Your Sex Life with Sexual Fantasies
I want to spice up my sex life and share my sexual fantasies with my partner, but I don't know how! Help!!
Sharing sexual fantasies with your man can be scary. You worry you're partner might think you're a freak and run for the hills when you cop to your fetish for pinkie toes. But revealing your deepest sexual desires can be a great way to spice up your sex life. It's all about how you go about it. Here are a few tips: Time it right. Pick a time when you and your partner are comfortable and communicating well. It's usually best to have these convos outside the bedroom and not when you're in the act. Use a book or film. Watching a sexy movie together or reading a naughty book about your sexual fantasies is a great way to spice up your sex life and introduce something new. Just press pause when you get to the part that turns you on, and say, "Hey, wanna try that? I do!" Ask before sharing. Before you divulge your desire to be blindfolded and ravished in an airplane bathroom at 30,000 feet, ask your partner what fantasies he has. If you get him sharing his wild desires, it'll be easier to open up about yours. Set expectations Some fantasies are just that, fantasies. Stories to be shared but not necessarily acted upon. So when you share your sexual fantasy, make sure you let your partner know whether or not you want to act on it, so you can be sure to avoid any potentially awkward (and expensive) misunderstandings involving whips, chains and leather pants!