Spice Up Your Sex Life With Sex Toys
I want to spice up our sex life. How can I broach the topic of sex toys with my husband?
If you want to spice up your sex life with some sex toys, the first thing you need to do is talk to your hubby. However, I always recommend that people don't talk about sexual concerns in the bedroom—especially after something goes wrong. Your husband may assume that you need a toy because he isn't good enough for you. When bringing up the topic of sex toys, be light-hearted and playful. Let him know that you really enjoy the sex you're having now, but you feel a toy will spice it up even more.
It would be best to start with something light. Before bringing a vibrator into the relationship, you may want to use massage oils, edible creams, feather ticklers or a sexual board game. If you do want a vibratori, it is best to start with an external vibe that isn't shaped like a penis. There are many wonderful external vibrators on the market that don't even look like sex toys. Most men enjoy spicing up their sex lives with toys. I'm sure he'll be ecstatic you want to explore them.
Answered by
Dr. Brian Parker
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