Spice Up Your Sex Life by Trying New Things in Bed
How can I get my reluctant partner to try something new in bed?
We know, having sex with the same person year after year (and year) can become a bit dull. You hop into bed after an exhausting day of parenting, have a quickie in the Missionary position and roll over to sleep. Not exactly the stuff fantasies are made of. So if you're looking to spice up your sex life and get your partner to try new things and be more adventurous in bed, read on!
Broaching the subject with your partner can be a little tricky. You don't want to say, "Honey, sex with you is boooo-ring!" He might get offended and feel like he's not satisfying you. So tread lightly! You can bring it up by saying you love being intimate with him and find him as sexy as ever, but think it would be fun to spice up your sex life to try new things! Just be up front and say, "How about trying such-and-such? It may be fun!" If he seems reluctant, ask if he'd be willing to try it once and if he doesn't like it, promise not to bring it up again.
Another way to inspire your man to try new things in bed is to pick up a book on sexual positions, like the Kama Sutra. Sometimes just doing the deed in a different way can really spice up your sex life.
You can also rent a sexy movie, hit pause when you see something that excites you and say, "Wanna try that?"
Another great way to get your partner to be more adventurous in bed is to swap sexual fantasies. Tell him your deepest, kinkiet desires and ask him to tell you his. And then act 'em out!