I am 35 weeks my husband's and I sex life has been about the same, but definitely not because I want it to. Before the pregnancy we were having sex just about everyday, sometimes 2 or 3 times a day. Now we still have sex about once a day, but I mostly only give in because I don't want him to feel neglected. I have had almost no appetite at all for sex, but I give in just to please him. How can I express to him that I am 8 months pregnant and just don't want to be touched without hurting his feelings?!!! Any suggestions?
hahaha this is funny. we haven't had sex since I found out i was pregnant. almost 2 months. The last time we had sex was my birthday sept 13th, to be exact. im scared. and it is driving him crazyyyyyy!!! what could i do, to get over this?!
im 14 weeks and yeah i just not in the mood at all to tired and then feels weird with baby there. puts me off. im hoping my other half doesnt get to upset lol. i give in sometimes to make him happy
Not even close and I miss it terribly!! This is my first child, I'm at 27 weeks, and I'm nearing 40 so my boyfriend is worried more about me and the baby's health than keeping things active. He's extremely caring and loving, but the sex thing has gone completely out the window!! He says he still finds me sexy and desirable, but I am certainly not feeling like it. . .
its not that i dont feel sexy...i'm just not in the mood. before preggers we were 3-4xs a week now...we're good if its 1-2 in 7-10 days...i'm having a girl and i dont know if thishas anything to do with it but I really am just so hormonal and cranky that sex is far far far from my mind. my poor hubby...we dont even have mercy sex...i'm just not into it.
Im 33 weeks pregnant and my husband will not touch me. We have not been intimate since finding out i was pregnant. He says he loves me but I feel so unloved and lonely :'(
With our son once i hit 5mths i was a sex pot and couldnt get enough. this time we're having a girl and i dont know if that makes a difference but everything about this pregnancy has been so different from my first that i think it has alot to do with it...anyway we have it about 1-2x's every 7-10 days and since i hit 7wks...i got really sick in beginning. now that im 6mths i still dont really have a desire for it...the 1-2x's are mostly out of "wifey duty".
eh, yes and no i guess. In my first, second and even some of my third, i couldn't get enough! but here lately hubby has been working a lot and i'm not really up for it. It just isn't the same with this huge belly in the way! lol. Sad, but oh so true!
I have NO sex drive what so ever. But I don't want to neglect my boyfriends needs and feelings so I give in. I am still in my first trimester and I hope it returns soon!
My POOR boyfriend!!! He dont even try cause he knows that i feel SO SUPER UNSEXY but god love him, he tells me all the time how beautiful and sexy i am...its been like 3 months...:X
Im just beginning my 14th week. I find myself more eager to doing it in the morning. At night I feel wiped and a bit nauseous. He is starting to understand, but I feel bad..poor guy!
we try to have sex as much as we can but the kids take up alot of our time and sometimes they want to sleep in our bed and by the time they fall asleep we r too tired to get up and put them in thier own bed lol
we did at first but a couple different times now though after sex I have had a lil tiny bit of blood and I know that if that happens your suppose to stop for a while. That happening freaked us both out and im always ready and he is too but he stops himself and doesnt try anything bc he doesnt want to hurt our baby and I really cant argue with that.
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Absolutely! I'd almost say everything within me is heightened. My husband can't keep his hands off my new body:)
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I am 35 weeks my husband's and I sex life has been about the same, but definitely not because I want it to. Before the pregnancy we were having sex just about everyday, sometimes 2 or 3 times a day. Now we still have sex about once a day, but I mostly only give in because I don't want him to feel neglected. I have had almost no appetite at all for sex, but I give in just to please him. How can I express to him that I am 8 months pregnant and just don't want to be touched without hurting his feelings?!!! Any suggestions?
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This is too funny! Since the day i've found out my drive has went way doen hill! To even think of it, makes me sick!
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hahaha this is funny. we haven't had sex since I found out i was pregnant. almost 2 months. The last time we had sex was my birthday sept 13th, to be exact. im scared. and it is driving him crazyyyyyy!!! what could i do, to get over this?!
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so far nothing has changed for me..we still go at it alot...he really likes the size that my boobs have grown lol
but idk whats gonna happen when i really start to show...
he said he still will be all for it but plzzz idk if i will lol
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im 14 weeks and yeah i just not in the mood at all to tired and then feels weird with baby there. puts me off. im hoping my other half doesnt get to upset lol. i give in sometimes to make him happy
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