Looking for anyone with optimistic experiences/advice with pregnancy after neonatal death.

Hi,

My name is Krysta.  I'm 26 years old and I'm pregnant with my second child.  My daughter was born 3 years ago and passsed away at birth due to a rare type of cord insertion in the placenta resulting in compression and asphyxiation. 

I was wondering if there are any mothers that have had experience with neonatal death and pregnancy after.  I'm looking for ways to cope with fears and worries about this pregnancy through other mom's experiences and how they handled it.

So far this pregnancy I've bled twice - heavily - but the bleeding stopped after about 2-3 hours.   An ultrasound has also found a crescent shaped fluid sac near the implantation site.  So I'm a little on edge.

Any advice is greatly appreciated.

Thanks. :)