nervouse and scared at the same time!!

You are probably just less than 5 weeks along. I'm sure everything is okay. The rate for miscarriage in the first time pregnancy is very high and very common but it's when you have more like 2 or 3 miscarriages that you should start to worry a whole lot. I know easier said than done but it was probably just a first time thing. My mom had a missed miscarriage with her first pregnancy and if she didn't I never would have been born. It hurt her alot to go through it but in the end she was happy it happened because she got me out of it and she aid she wouldn't change it for anything. I am sure everything will work out just the way it is supposed to for you. Try to hang in there I am sending positive thoughts and prayers your way, try not to stress as that is very very bad for the baby especially this early on! Think Positive the mind is very powerful!

SARA,,yes i did not to the one that i went last yr cause he cnt see me till i have a type of insurance so i went to mexico to check my self cause i was concerned,,, i told her about the mild cramps so she gave me some medication for that,, she also did a sono and counting from my last period im 5wks and 5days but in the sono u just can c a tiny plack dot so she thinks that i might b less that 5wks but im scared cause thats what they told me from my last pregnancy so im scared that the same thing will happen again and i feel sad!!

AMBER,,i went today to the docter they told me im 5wks and 5 days so they did a vaginal sono,, the sono should a small black dot she

I had mild cramping at the beginning, then again around 11 weeks got it for a while I was told it was the muscles stretching and growing. How far along are you? I would mention it to the doc just to be safe.