shower "uncommon" for 2nd baby???
Ok ladies got a question....I am due with my 2nd little boy in December (my 1st is 2 1/2yrs) and I have heard that it is "uncommon" to have a shower for the 2nd if they are the same gender. Well.....I got rid of ALOT of my 1st sons things to make room for the toys he played with and now dont have a lot left. My mom threw my shower last time and my sis-in-law wants to throw one this time but I don't want to seem like a greedy person to anyone that comes. :( I really would like to have one just to get some basics, clothes, diapers, wipes...nothing big. I think the biggest item we need is a swing and a double stroller.
I have made some new friends and started a new job since the last shower so I am thinking that with all the new people that will be there it will be like a whole new party and I shouldnt feel bad.
So....do I let the shower go as planned or do I try to buy things on my own???