Very young.& Very scared.

Hey , I'm coming up on 14 Weeks , I believe . I'm almost 17 , I was raped by my ex -boyfriend who is the father . So I'm scared that my baby will never know his / Her father . I don't want him around my child . My mom kicked me out of my house so I have to live with my friend Tia , Who has 3 Sisters . It's very stressful , I do need someone to talk to , My own blood disowned me all because I was raped & Serverely beatened . :I They all said I wanted it that way because I loved being around kids & I loved babysitting . 

hi im 12 weeks pregnant and im only 19 .

I found out i was preganat at 9 weeks and is very scared because i was partying and doing things i was not suppost to but as soon as i found out i stopped everything becuase i would never wanna put my baby in harm of anything. im not getting support for my family and i just feel so alone and scared and just need people to talk to that knows what im going threw.

Hey, im 15 and 33 weeks pregnant i know how you feel when i found out i was really scared, amd all my friends have gone to cause i can't do everything they can, and everybody told me i messed up my life, but the way i see it is if it wasnt ment to happen then it wouldnt have, if u need someone to talk to ill talk to ya(:

Hey!! Welcome to the boards! Sorry that you are having to go through this. I have been too. A lot of my friends have stopped coming around for me as well. I am 21 and also 21 weeks pregnant ironically enough. I have a couple of friends that have stayed around for me and for my daughter, and the rest have just kind of faded away. You ever need an ear feel free to message me. I have been dealing with a lot in just the 5 ish months that I have been pregnant from the crazy morning sickness, to ending the relationship with the father to a hospital visit where I almost lost my little girl... It has been a crazy time, but every time she kicks me, I know that no matter what I have made the right decision.

Trust me it will become more fun as you keep going! Everytime I go to Walmart or Kohls or anywhere that carries things for babies, I get lost and forget what I was actually there for. It is the most adorable thing to look at all of the little clothes, outfits and shoes! 

Anytime you need an ear let me know!! I love to listen to other people talk about their pregnancies and talk about my little girl!  :) 

i was 18 when i found out i was pregnant and alot of my friends were my age and younger but yet still didnt like the idea of having a baby around or at least a baby with disabilties im now 21 if you need advice or anything id love to help or just talk do you know what your having?

and have you picked out a name yet 

Hey, I dont know if you are spiritual but praying to God will help you! Just ask for what ever it is that you need and you will be amazed how it works and helps!! You can also rely on the friends that you meke here. Good luck hun, you can message me as well. :)

Hi and welcome to the boards!  I am sorry you are going though all of this - it must be scary.  Please rely on the people on here, I know it is not the same as having the same thing as in real life friends but just know that we are here for you!

Hello, I am 20 years old & thirteen weeks pregnant. I feel the same way as you. 

Hey.  I am 18 and I found out I was pregnant 2 months ago.  I went through the same thing as you.  I was really scared to tell anyone because I knew they would get upset. But the sooner you tell them, the better.  Just tell them that it is your body and that you choose to keep the baby.  If they are a loving family, they will finally respect your opinions.  Yes, it will be a long difficult emotional road but the farther along you get, the more they will get used to it and they might actually get excited :).  And you will probably have to sign up for Medicaid and that takes a few months to go through depending on where you live.  But you will still be able to go see the doctor that accepts Medicaid even before the Medicaid kicks in.  But just make sure you tell your family ASAP so you can get to a doctor to make sure you baby is doing well.  Good luck with everything 

Hey, I just turned 17 in august and well I just found out three days ago that I am pregnant. I have not gone to the doctor yet and I have yet to tell anyone. My family believes that people at young ages should have an abortion but I want to keep it. I have no idea how to even begin to tell anyone. I feel alone in this. I find myself smiling when I think about my baby but everyone around me is talking about my future in college and sports and I just do not know how to break the knews... anyone have advice? Also, how do other teenagers afford a pregnancy with all the doctor visits? As much as i am excited I am also scared... 

Hello, I am young as well. I turned 17in august and my boyfriend (the babys daddy) just turned 18. I have had it really hard, I have been called so many names but at the end of the day you just got to think that you are starting your own little family. if you ever want a chat message me, i am 14 weeks now and I have never been happier. :)

I was young too. I was also a cheerleader, head of student gov. and all that other crap. I lost all my friends and was called horrible names. I am now 21 with 4 year old and i'm 7 months pregnant again. I have my own home with 10 acres of land, 2 cars that are paid off, and my husband and I are starting a micro-farm. I know it's kind of hard not to believe that it's the end of your life (and in ways it kind of is) but your starting something new! It's going to be hard work but you can still have everything you want and be ahead of everyone else in your class, you will be done having kids and they will just be starting or even still in collage. You got this!!!

i was like you allmost two years ago im now 18 with a little girl named emma who will be two in march . i allso lost all my friends but i found this website and that helped me so much . if you would ever like to talk pass me a mesage. i hope you can get threw this tuff spot in life it wont be easy but it will be worth it in time . dont give up on your self eather having a baby young dose not determine how far you can go. it might be tuffer than be for but it will never stop your dreams .good luck hun and congrats !

im 17 and pregnant. i am lossing alot of friends as well.. my best friend for 6 years told me that me having a baby is too much for her to handle and she doesnt want to be judged.. i dontthink she realized what she said is exsacly how i feeell!.... but i undrstand im from chicago and my advice to u is. if there not mature enough to stand up for there friends even when a friend is wrong. not a good friend. and heres better around waiting for uu . god sometimes give us new people when ohers go awaty. not takes them away

i was not young when i had my first at 25, my dream age to have a child, but I can tell anyone what to expect and i have another one on the way so if you need to talk or need advice on father issues or what to expect, please feel free to ask.

Heya, I'm 16 and pregnant (sounds such a cliche) and I am due this Boxing Day. Not sure if you're in the US or UK (I'm a Londoner) but I am here if you need to speak.It must be really difficult losing you're friends and I am so grateful that I was not in that position. What is the father of the baby thinking? Are you still together? Are  your parents being supportive? Are you 100% sure of you're decision, I like you was quite far on in my pregnancy finding out (17 weeks)  and was short of quick solutions - however, I always knew I would keep the baby but I understand those who do not decide to continue with pregnancy at this age and under certain circumstances.Hope you're well in yourself I know how stressful it is, but remember this is a blessing and not a burden. You are currently home to a new little miracle!

Hello. I was 19 When i had my daughter. i got pregnant at 18. now im 21 and pregnant with my second! I lost al my friends too. But only true friends will stick with you no matter what. it is hard for other ppl to relate to us. 

Well, I'm 33 now but I understand what you're going through. I was pregnant at 17, had a miscarriage and then got pregnant again at 18.

It sucks to lose your friends. You guys are just at different stages in life right now. You're right though, there isn't anything you can do about it now but to move on.

Do you know what you're having?